Relationship expert Joro Olumofin, in his new article claims Nigerian ladies have killed romance.
Read what he wrote and share if you agree or not:
“What am I doing with a flower? Can I eat it or plant it ?” Some Nigerian ladies have killed Romance ; this has led to less Relationships, lack of self worth, increase in one night stands and body counts. – Joro Olumofin .
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Romance is very key in relationships, a proper romantic gesture from the Heart shows how a man or woman truly feels about his significant other. In Nigeria today, because of the economy, misinformation, backward mentality in both men and women Romance is meant to be a show of Money. No money , No Romance.
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Ladies be honest with yourselves in answering. let’s do a quick survey.
1️⃣ Flowers VS Pizza & Cold stone. Which would you choose ?
2️⃣ 4 Birthday Romantic cards VS N4,000 recharge cards.. which would you choose ?
3️⃣Picnic in Alausa Park with sandwiches &juice VS Drinks at Quilox / Sip with small chops.. which would you choose ?
4️⃣ iPhone Vs Candle light dinner with violin or piano serenade.. which would you choose ?
5️⃣ N200, 000 Vs A trip to Obudu cattle ranch.
6️⃣ A beautiful Painting of yourself Vs a Designer Bag or Shoe .
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If you scored less than 4 / 6 in this survey, I’m sorry you’re materialistic and romantic gestures are secondary to you which is a major problem. .
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Nigerian ladies are guilty of this because of peer pressures and competition, a young man wrote me last week to complain that his girlfriend asked him for a new phone, he asked her if her phone was bad she said why are you asking me questions my daddy will ask me? Just be “romantic” and buy the phone.
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Ladies if your phone is not faulty why embark on a race to buy a new one in the process reducing your Wife material and diminishing your Persona. .
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It’s so sad that romance is dead in our generation. Flowers and cards don’t mean anything anymore. Love is now synonymous with Money, Food, and Bags. .
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A proper romantic gesture will follow you for life while a material gesture will fade in time. Ladies please start receiving and demanding for flowers again.
DO YOU AGREE?